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bad advice : this cheating heart

by mg at 07:40 AM on April 02, 2001

neotriax writes:

My girlfriend cheated on me, dumped me, then told me about the fact that she cheated on me. If we are still talking all the time for a week afterwards, should I give her another chance?

Well, neotriax, if you've read this site before, you know that I was in a similar situation a couple months ago. My ex-girlfriend was seeing another guy, keeping us both in the dark about the other. The way she let me know about the other guy was to, one day, clear out of the blue, tell me she was getting married. That marriage never happened.

I don't know that much about the extended circumstances of your situation, and really, I don't care. When you've got a website, you can write all about your petty little problems, but this is my show, and here is the way I see the situation:

A cheating significant other deserves death, or at least a very painful life. Like Timothy McVeigh, your girlfriend has lost the right to be treated like a human being, because, in the eyes of God, she no longer is one.

You can't legally end your girlfriend's life, nor do I in any way suggest that (*wink* *wink*). So, if you do decide to take her back, and you will decide to take her back, she has lost all her girlfriend rights. You don't have to buy her presents anymore. She should be buying you things. Like a Play Station 2, or a mail-order bride. She has lost the right to get dinner or drinks paid for. In fact, you should be stealing money from her purse when she isn't looking.

She has also lost the right to not be punched in the face for being such a stupid bitch. I suggest using a sack-full of oranges since that won't leave any bruises. She has lost the right of you staying the night or for calling the next morning. Shit, you can not call her for weeks, and she won't have any right to be upset. And more than anything, she has lost the right to have you not cheat on her. Does she have any younger sisters? Neotriax, my friend, you should be leaving batches in every female member of her family, her best friends, and her pets.

So, if you decide to take her back, and you will decide to take her back, think of this as your chance to do and say whatever you want without any guilt or fear of repercussion. Enjoy her company. Enjoy the grunting in the back seat of your Dodge Dart. But when she cheats again, and she will cheat again, be ready.

Spend the time while you are together getting ammunition to be used on her later. Save all the embarrassing voicemail she leaves you. Save all the letters, e-mail and instant messenger conversations. And if you can, get her to pose nude for pictures, or better yet, videos.

It may seem like a lot of work to do all those things, but it is worth it. When you do break up again, and you will break up again, you will have all this terrific information you can use to destroy her life. And that, my friend, is priceless. Replay the voicemails on her parent's answering machine. Forward the e-mails to all her co-workers. Let me post her naked pictures and video on this site. Make her life miserable. Women come and women go, but sweet, sweet revenge lasts forever.

And before the cry of "misogyny" fills the air, shut the hell up, bitch. The same would apply whether male or female, gay or straight, bestialist or necrophiliac. Advice this bad is universal.

Do you want some bad advice? Of course you do, submit your questions.

comments (67)

"Cheating" implies a game is being played - not a relationship. Jealousy involves more self-love than love. God I’m glad I’m gay - and I don't feel the need to ape heterosexual paradigms.

by Ralph at April 2, 2001 4:35 AM

Wow, That's the best advice I've ever received in my life, no shit!!! This is great, I owe you a million. But instead i'll throw your banner on my site.

-NeoTriax

Thanks again! You might be seeing some videos of this bitch soon....

by NeoTriax at April 2, 2001 7:34 AM

Mr "I'm too good for heterosexuality":

Hello/o/!! Obviously you haven't been in the situation then. Imagine what it feels like to be oh-so-in-a-capital-R-relationship and then have some worthless slut (just out for a good time) CHEAT on you.

I have. And I wish to God I had smashed her face in with a sack of oranges. Revenge is a dish best served cold... and sometimes it's the least you can do for yourself.

by Toby at June 20, 2001 9:35 AM

mmm...the way i see it, everybody cheats..!

by darkangel at August 7, 2001 1:50 AM

How the hell do you get pictures sent and posted on this site!? hurry, someone tell me now! I have some revenge pictures to put up fast! Trust me, if you knew this girl, you'd want to see her cry as badly as i do, so SOMEONE PLEASE HURRY THE HELL UP AND TELL ME HOW TO POST PIC'S ON THIS SITE!

by ThisDude at December 18, 2001 9:58 PM

by ThisDude at December 18, 2001 10:00 PM

this is the bests page

by scott at January 2, 2002 8:16 AM

To the person, or to the "woman"(being the 'darkangel' handle, who said ...the way I see it, everybody cheats.

I'm a 34 year old man who has never cheated on a partner in my LIFE!! I think too much of the other person to do that. Apparantly you are a worthless human being.

by Raines at February 18, 2003 8:56 AM

I LOVE SUCKING DIRTY ASS JUICE DRIPPING COCK IF YOU DO TO EMAIL ME AND WE CAN GET TOGETHER SOON.

by KM at July 7, 2003 1:18 PM

Being exclusive with someone isn't a fad, or a slogan, or an excuse,
the only reason we do it, is because we want to, not because we have to.
If you're in the right relationship, you don't look at anyone else, don't have the desire, because you're satisfied and content with what ya got. Lots of people cheat on each other, and in my opinion, it's a waste of time. If you're going to do it, leave the relationship open. And if you're out to hurt someone, cheat and lie to them, then you really have insecurity issues.
I'd rather be alone then with someone I can't trust.
And yes, I am woman, and yes I'm in a wonderful relationhip.

by anonymous at October 28, 2003 3:08 PM

I found this site by looking for advice on a similar situation I find myself in. I'll spare you the specifics, but I would REALLY like to share them, because it's almost unbeleivable how stupid I am.
However, I will share my plan.
It's December now, and after Christmas I'll invest in a nice engagement ring (somewhere with a return policy.)
I'll propose somewhere inexpensive.
Wait a week or so.
Borrow some money from her.
Come up with some lame excuse to get the ring back (resizing, cleaning, whatever.)
Once she's started making plans (gone dress shopping) I'll then pressure her into a little "butt play."
Afterwards, she's feeling (certainly smelling) filthy and maybe even disgusted with herself, drop the BOMB!
The core of the bomb being, "I would never trust anyone who would so carelessly betray my love with raising my children."

by sambo at December 9, 2003 9:00 PM

I think thee problem with relationships today is that people really honestly do not know what they want, I know we all love to get laid but I mean does anyone ever really care about the other person and why so much fighting and arguing over stupid shit I say burn your underware get naked and trash your house maybe not in that order but hey i look at it this way we only live once so play hard or don't play at all

by Daniel at February 27, 2004 12:51 AM

Ive been in the relationship i am in for 11 months. i really love him and have been totally satisfied--until now. recently he hasnt been satisfying me enough and i have started sorta seeing someone else. he has no clue. and i really love him but i feel that i am too young to be tied down and feeling like this, but i dont want to lose him. so i can understand cheating.

by sara at April 12, 2004 8:35 PM

This is the funniest thing I have read in a long time. Your plan of revenge is not only hilarios, it's genius. Be careful girls there are some smart men out there! And yes eveyone cheats eventually;)

by Samantha at September 3, 2004 1:37 AM

To the Samantha....no everyone does not eventually cheat...I have never cheated in my life. I guess I'm not a poor excuse for a human being that you and Sara are.

by Raines at December 29, 2004 8:18 AM

Why do people cheat? Any of you cheaters wanna chirp in? Whenever you're confronted your reasons are beyond laughable:

"It just happened." "I wasn't thinking about it." Or the classic: "I don't know why?"

Why can't you just 'not' cheat, break up with whoever you're with, and then pursue whoever you want? Why go behind the back of somebody you're with, and betray their trust? It don't make sense.

I hate cheaters... I'm using the word hate here... 'hate'!

by Ex Crimson Guard NCO at December 29, 2004 2:19 PM

Sara's reason is all 'me me me'. You deserve to be alone Sara. :)

by Ex Crimson Guard NCO at December 29, 2004 2:22 PM

Middle Finger goes to Sara, For some reason It hurts WAY more when women cheat. They know better, also the way they hide it drives you nuts later when you think about it. Follow the monkey (Sara) if you wanna end up playing russian routette with a suicidal buddy

by SilkySaul at December 30, 2004 2:29 AM

Well, what if you just sort of trip and your penis accidentally goes in another woman? Then, while you're trying to remove it, your arms repeatedly keep giving out so that it goes back in until you inevitably ejaculate from the friction of the in and out motion. Is that still considered cheating?

Silky, it hurts like hell when anyone cheats no matter the gender. It's called betrayal and there are few worse things you can do to another person. Men should know better also and can come up with ways that are just as devious as women to hide it.

by Ezy at December 30, 2004 2:50 PM

Hi Raines,
I am so glad to hear that you have not cheated either....
I have been cheated on by every man so far... I am not saying this to put full
blame on men only... I know there are also a lot of female cheaters.
I too can say that I have never cheated on my mate. I would never betray
someone's trust that way. Being solely intimate with one other is just too damn
special and real to throw it away....I believe that if you need to cheat you need to leave for good first!!
OZ

by OZ at January 17, 2005 8:52 AM

Ha ha! you too deserve eachother! Cheat cheat cheat! you might as well. That way when you catch her, the revenge has already been accomplished. I say Up With Cheaters, down with...ummm...Oz and Raines! Ha HA!!!

by Cheat'r at January 26, 2005 3:05 AM

Wow. that last comment is probably the most pessimistic hing i have ever heard. It brings to for instances to light in my mind. The fisrt being Micheal Moore stating preemptive war is terrorism, and the soncond the movie Minority Report.

Botha re examples of how jumping to conclusions, how assuming how other people will react and reacting to this possibility just creates problems. Arresting someone without the crime being committed is definately an infringement of rights. It leaves them no options to prove themselves to be the better person. With no faith in humanity, humanity has no choice but to disappoint. I'm not sure that that statement is a an example of all your realtionships Cheat'r, but i can promise you one day you will look back and it will be a characteristic of all your doomed relationships.

by dominathan at January 26, 2005 4:35 AM

THIS IS BY FAR THE BEST ADVICE I HAVE GOTTEN"!!!!
where could i post pics of my flat chested EXgirlfriends naked body?
NEEDTO KNOW HOW!!!
AND HOW ABOUT A DASH OF MSN MESSENGER HISTORY WITH THE DUDE SHE HAD SEX WITH???

/i hate cheaters.

by someones nation at February 15, 2005 9:01 PM

Listen cheating is something that I think may eventually happen, but doesn't have to. I been in a relationship with a man for six years. He used to verbally and physically abuse me. Then had the nerve to get locked up leaving me pregnant and alone. You better believe that once I dropped that baby I met someone else. Not that I was really into that person, but he was a source of comfort, someone who I could talk to and make me feel like the queen I am. So when my son's father found out I did feel bad, and still do to this day, but am I really at fault? Should have appreciated me for the wonderful, FAITHFUL, beautiful girlfriend that I was. Now he manages to call me a slut and a whore everyday because he's an insecure bitch. I am pregnant again. The only difference is that this time once the baby is out, I will not only have a confidant, but I will be having sex with him. Fuck being a faithful woman. They say once a good girls gone bad she's gone forever, Well I'm GONE!

by Brooklyn at February 24, 2005 4:08 PM

well, i've read all of the previous comments from cheaters and non-cheaters. It's amazing...it really comes down to whether you've been "there" (have been cheated on) or been "it" (the cheater). To those of us, who are actually commited to someone else nothing else exists outside of that person, we are truly complete. My only fear is that not everyone reacts the same way, my BiGGEST fear really is not of my boyfriend its of those worthless women who entertain themselves with other women's property. And to those b*t***s you got another thing coming, find your own. Pathetic bunch are those...to those who have been cheated on...i'm truly sorry...to those of you who cheat...YOU don't deserve a 2nd chance...or a chance at all in love.

by Ijustwanttocomment at April 23, 2005 1:15 PM

How about this, my wife tells me after we get married that she slept with someone else. I graduated college a year before she did, so she had a year to be by her self do her own things. I told her to stay away from this person, cause he was bad news. She reasured me that she was just friends, she told me she got drunk and slept with this person; and feels terrible. I was so pissed off, and yet we are married and have a kid, damn this cruel world. I don't believe in divorse, nor does she, and even if i did i could never leave me kid. I just get so pissed off every time i think about it, which is more often that i want.

by Joel at May 7, 2005 12:05 AM

I always have this duobt about me g/f cheatin on me nd it worries me 2 death.

But your advice is great if they cheat in u take thme back then u odnt have 2 worry bwt anythin if they dont do wat ya tel them to do u kick them out great stuff man!

by alex at June 4, 2005 8:33 AM

my boyfriend has been cheating on me for almost 3 years. the reason im with him is coz we have a baby boy.
im not ugly nor am i grossly overweight but i do not think that has got anything
to do with loyalty in a relationship anyway.
i dont know what to do.
he broke up with me today.

by annie at June 10, 2005 12:52 PM

My situation is extremely severe. I was kind of an asshole boyfriend at times, but I never cheated. I went away to a program for 6 months and my girlfriend got drunk and cheated on my with someone she met in one night. Then later I found out she also slept with my best friend. I had to bust her to get the truth, she finally admitted, and acted like she was on her high horse. Like I deserved it. ONE BIG PROBLEM...Our daughter is in her custody and she is now living out of state. Our daughter is 24 months old and has advanced stages of cancer. I love my daughter, I even love that cheating girl. Get back together for my daughter or am I being pathetic. Be honest!

by Floridaman at June 21, 2005 1:55 PM

I have a question.
I've been with my girl for over a year and she loves me and is into me.

So far, she's been I think 100% satisfied with me (We never really ran into problems)

When going out to a club all drunk (her), can that effect her thinking and probably do something wrong with another guy?

She states that when she's drunk, she knows what she is doing.

But then again, anyone can say that.

I'd love to hear everyones thoughts on this, including women. From women here, if you are committed and drunk as hell with your friends in a location that's filled with many guys, does this ever happen to you?

I'm only asking cause I know with lots of people, there are 2 sides to them. With their boyfriend, and without him.

Thanks

by Dave at June 28, 2005 9:40 AM

if you've been in a relationship for more than a year and one day get drunk with a girl other than your girlfriend, mess around with her, then freakout when you realize what you've just done and feel totally disgusted by yourself-but you realize that nooone will ever know about it because it was just you and her and she totally regrets and feels horrible about it as well.... should you tell your girlfriend? i know i should-honesty is the best policy---but all i think about is how horribly regretful i am and i don't want ANYONE to know about this-i really just want to turn back time and have never drank ever in my life. and i don't think she would 'understand', i know she'd breakup with me actually... but she's the love of my life... and that was the drunkest i've ever been and i can hardly even remember doing anything, all i know is the horrible feeling i had when i wokeup. i love my girlfriend so much, she's everything to me. i don't want to let a few minutes of me getting out of control ruin my whole life.

by ouch at July 20, 2005 11:34 AM

My ex-fiance just cheated on me. I had received an email, and instead of believing the person emailing me, I believed her. We had planned on moving into a new house, but while I was making the preparations she was staying at here moms. I didn't believe the mails, stupid me, instead and believed and trusted in her while she had already showed herself to be a lier. She came over for 5 days and helped me take care of some of the more minor aspects of the move, in which time she gave something to me. I haven't gotten tested so I'm not completely sure what, but it took a while for it to start showing up. The person had finally got around to emailing me the pictures that they said they had, and it was her. She got some skin disease about a week before I left to get the new house ready, and the pictures had the rash she had developed in them, that was the one way I was possitive that it wasn't old pictures. Well, after this happened I tried calling to tell her that she had 72 hours to come get her stuff, but her mom told me that she had moved in with this guy. She has stolen a bunch of my shit and I want to make her pay for all she's put me through. If you have any suggestions email me at uuman_ebs_latel@yahoo.com I'm very willing to listen to any ideas of revenge you may have.

Oh, and just so you know to stay away from the person, her name is Coquille Blanchard. She lives in Baker City OR and she's a lying slut. Then again, if you want to get laid, just tell her you have a kid on the way with another woman, but you aren't allowed to go around her, she'll fuck you and let you take pictures of it so you can send them to her fiance or boyfriend. My advice is to stear clear of the whore though.

by Robert at August 20, 2005 6:09 PM

Also, if you know how to get a pussy ass mother fucker out of his parents house so you can beat his ass, let me know. I've tried to hunt the fucker that she cheated on me with down, but he won't even leave the house.

Get this, she left me, a guy that has his own place and a job that pays above $9.75 an hour for a guy that lives with his mom and sleeps in the same room as his little brother. The guy is physically pathetic and doesn't have to balls to stand up for himself, let alone her. I'm a big guy, alright, i'm 6'4" 235lbs, and I can understand how he wouldn't want to fight me, but I feel I've earned the right to send this short, scrawny ass little bitch to the hospital. For a year now this guy has been running around town talking shit, but never has the sack to step up when I get in his face. All the little bitch can do is cry that his step-daddy will take care of me.

Well Levi Baird, grow youself a sack. You can bring your weak ass step-dad or who ever you want, but come get it. You know where I'm at, be a man and stop hiding because you're afraid.

Remember what happened back when you tried to wrestle me in Coquille's apartment a year ago? You remember flying across the room? Remember how every time you talked shit you would turn tail and leave? Remember that fear, and you might be able to live through what I'm going to do to you. You have two choices, come to me on your terms, or I'll find you, where ever you are, what ever time of the day, I'll find you. Oh, you might be able to hide for a while, but it's just going to make it worse on you when I get ahold of you. Watch over your shoulder if you want, but I'll be there, waiting for you when you least expect it. You can't run forever, nor can you hide forever. Remember that.

by Robert at August 20, 2005 6:28 PM

Yeah man my chick left me today ok and she was all like oh it's not you i just think we should see other people and shit like that. Then i heard from my best friend that she asked him out. Man i'm just glad that my best friend himself told me about this fucked situation and since he was a good friend he told her no and he couldn't do that because he is in fact my best friend anyways keep in touch man
Adam Parent
Grand Falls NB
P.S. Your Advice was the best

by Adam Parent at September 15, 2005 1:50 PM

I was just faced with a cheating problem. My fiance (7 years together total) decided she wanted to be just friends with a friend of mine. She would drunk dial him to spend the night at his house. Memorized his number behind my back. Would call him and go over to his house behind my back. Now she swears nothing happened. She also swears that she only wanted to be friends. Im just wondering if anyone else has had this problem. I mean i have heard of the "7 year itch". And we are both only 22 years old so we are still young. But I got all insecure and jealous about it, and she made me feel like i was being crazy. I dont know if i am or not. Something feels wrong about the situation, but she says guys and girls can just "be friends". I think i disagree! Anyone else? I have tried being friends with girls, but with time spent emotion grows, and after it grows, problems a-"rise". Ive never cheated. Never will. But when i hang out with certain girls, sometimes the thoughts a-"rise", so i decide not to befriends with them, instead of being a bastard. I feel she should do the same, but she is so adament on being friends with him, its creeping me out, and making me feel uneasy. I guess just trying to get opinions. Thanks

by PeterGriffin at September 27, 2005 8:41 AM

my boyfriend cheated on me with his friend, stopped talking to her, got his job back where she worked and recentley started talking to her again...i looked at his text messages and she had sent him one that said "it's beautiful here, ill give you some nookie when I get home"...he told me that it was a joke that she messaged him, that some midget couple came in the store and said "ill give you some nookie" to each other, and she was the only there who heard it besides him, so it was an inside joke that brought back thier friendship...Im still trying to decide whether all people cheat and i should just stay w/him (he is a good guy), or look for someone better

by sarah at October 4, 2005 4:47 PM

Hey, my boyfriend cheated on me with my BEST FRIEND last month. I was completely devastated and erased everything I ever had to do with either of them. BUT and there is a but...I'm now back together with him, though its not for "love" as he thinks.

Although I still refuse to talk to my old friend, I decided that i would take him back, pretend to be so lonely and miserable since we'd split up before dumping him myself in some hurtful, yet hilarious way, so in other words, to get my revenge!!! Mwahahahaha. Any how, he's fallen fo it hook line and sinker and he truly believes that I just can't get enough of him (idiot) but now here's the tricky part:

How to do it?
I think the times right now to get to the explosive finale of my dastardly plot, but I just can't think how to do it!! Any suggestion??

by Yasmin at October 13, 2005 10:57 AM

this is defnitly the best advice i have heard in a really long time. i had suspected my ex of cheating and she kept reassuring me that she didn't like this guy for months, then one day out of the blue dumps me tells me that she isn't going to be with him. when a week later i find out that they have been together for about 5 months. I have been devistated, but after reading this it gives me the fuel for my revenge. Thank you very much

by Gpezet at November 9, 2005 12:00 AM

Damn, the funniest stuff I've read in a while... I feel WAY better about my sorry situation... Except I just moved in with this b***h and signed a year lease. But, since I 'stole' her from the guy she cheated on me with, what the hell did I expect? Here's the deal: she has no idea I know and the possibilities seem endless (heh-heh-heh). So I guess my plan is continue the farce of our relationship while running absolutely wild with my d**k until I get caught. Then play dumb, because obviously I am to get side-swiped like this. Oh well, "Beware the fury of a patient man" - John Dryden

by SteelieP at November 30, 2005 2:25 PM

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 5 months. Everything has been great except for when she takes a handful of pills and goes out and doesn't answer her phone for 2 days! I didn't think that she was cheating on me, but then on Sat. night when I was about to get off of work and supposedly go on a "romantic date"with her, she wouldn't answer my calls. When I finally saw her, I secreatly checked her phone and found out that she had text messaged her ex asking him if he "wanted some company" at the same time that she was supposed to be meeting me. I don't know if she "cheated", but the feeling is the same. I've never been unfaithful in my life, so I have to hold her to the same standards that I hold myself to. I broke up with her, and I feel used.

by Brandlmitch at January 19, 2006 8:34 PM

Hi Ya'll.....I'm From Dublin Ireland and found this site while browsing! Lads and lassises If you are not married than infidelity is probaly going to happen at some stage...Me own heart has been broken many times due to my high romantic values and for picking the wrong girls....listen If you really love them give them another chance....but if they do it again drop the bitch to keep your self respect because they sure don't respect you! RESECT is a two way street! Don't waste your time by allowing them to control your true feelings "normal" of LOVE...Don't let them abuse you by continuing to be parinoid, jelouse or suspisious of their every action...life's too short! Peace and unity !!!

sean

by Sean at March 12, 2006 8:57 PM

i know that bitch u right we should kill that bitch she did the same thang to me if u get this then email me i thank that we can become good freands and then u know :) maby a 9mm or a tech 9 or even better a mac 10 u get a hold of me we can talk about the shit thats fucked up that she did

by scooby at March 12, 2006 10:54 PM

haha... so this is the situation. There are no good sites on-line for exactly how to get back at an ex that's cheated.
My guy friend has this girl that still thinks he doesn't know about her cheating (cheating example #1, she has a hicky on her neck that he didn't give to her and she stayed at a 'friend's house' the night before which convienantly enough is right behind her friend's house) Anyways... this is the plan

-They aren't dating anymore but he's still acting like he's all caught up on her
-He's going to sleep with a random girl, and make sure he has her number for later
-An hour after he's done, invite his ex over and have her suck him off
-He will not touch her at all that night
-A week later he will go into her place of employment with that girl
-Just as he and the girl are leaving he will tell his ex that the "smell and/or taste" she experianced the week prior was thanks to the girl she just saw.

muahahaha

by Krista at March 27, 2006 12:39 AM

Just move on and forget about being cheated on. Its not good for you to be fucking someone and gathering revenge material at the same time-- just not healthy. Dont feel so insulted that you got cheated on; rather, know that the girl/guy wasn't as worthy as you thought.

by Move on/ find a better one at April 26, 2006 7:47 AM

My story is, was to be married the 14 of feb. 2006. My girlfriend was from florence mississippi, I am from missouri. We moved a few things to missouri, on the 9th day of april she went home, back to mississippi to get the final adjustments made for the wedding. She left in a collectable car, but I felt so what, that's my wife to be. Well people she never returned, and she also took quite a bit of cash with her. As I was going through her stuff to find out where she may be, I found nude professional pictures, and that she worked for an escort service called cathys in jackson mississippi. This slut, prostitute not only screwed me over, to top all of this I today found out she has been married six times at the age of 35 years old. Her name is gayla dawn maddox of florence missippi birth date 2 18 72 blonde, a real deeva, a slut, bitch deeva that has my 1984 jaguar propbably prostituting out of my car. Her e mail is madisonom1@yahoo.com all I can say is she took my heart, but baby all I can say to you is swallow and don't spit bitch.

by nomore sluts at May 1, 2006 9:26 PM

Gayla dawn maddox, this is an update of this prostitute, bitch, slut. I just recently found out she has been married five times, I would of been the sixth, and she is only 35 years old.........she works for escort services in jackson mississippi, bitch I hope when you go to spit bitch you swallow you no good slut prostitute whore.

by bob pilger at June 2, 2006 10:38 PM

I am still trying to work out why the hell people cheat on each other. I have heard so many stories of cheating and lying, the only reason being because they wanted to.

I have just got out of a four year relationship (one year of them married) with a cheating woman, she would lie to my face about being faithful, and only when I got really really ultra suspicious did I start checking up on her. Obviously I found out she had been cheating on me since before we were married.
When I asked her why she lied, why she had the nerve to get married to me when she wanted someone else, she told me that it was because she didn't want to lose me.

Well, (and forgive the rant), Jennifer {personal details removed}, maybe if you love someone enough that you don't want to lose them, not cheating on them might be a good idea.

One of the worst things she did, aside from the cheating was to tell me it was my fault that she hurt me, because if I had let it go and not caught her cheating then I would never have been hurt.

For myself I realise that I should have known better than to get involved, because this was how her first marriage ended too.

So anyway now the marriage is ending and she has pretty much ruined my life, broken my heart, left me homeless and hugely increased my debts. What happens to her? She is out there still having fun, still doing the same she always did, for all her reasons for lying to me of not wanting to lose me she has shown no remorse, no pity and only crocodile tears for the ending of the marriage.

Cheaters, they deserve to all get AIDs and die.

by Rab at June 24, 2006 11:59 AM

people who find themselves in the situations described above a) don't know themselves b) don't know their lover c) don't know how to communicate d) can't get a life of their own etc etc etc. revenge will never change anything or anyone, least of all the person you want. revenge won't even hurt them, if they didn't care enough and hurt you. hate is a waste of time. violence certainly doesn't solve any problems. fidelity is an OLD complex issue... cheating is an OLD complex issue. however, being ridiculous about it takes away the intricacies of being human. enjoy your state of mind. but, man, get over yourself!

by agh at June 27, 2006 1:56 AM

dued, thats so helpful. my ex girlfriend is being a bitch to me...like i said to her friend on the phone that she has hary eyebrows. Saying that made her break up with me and hate her for life. SHe doesnt like people dissing her friends. But oh well i can get as many girls as i can. i saved the chats that she was so mean to me for pay back and other stuff like that. so i can get any revenge i want. YOUR HELP IS VERY USEFUL.

THANK YOU

by Henry at June 30, 2006 7:16 PM

Gayla Maddox poses nude for different sites on the web. This deva, slut still has my car. She is also a prosiitute for escort services in jackson mississippi. She has been married five times, and cleaned house on every guy she ,arried. She is evil, wicked and a con artist for money. This woman needs to be locked up for a menice to society. Shge is 35 years old, still thinks she is 20. Gayla Maddox is a slut, whore, bitch, prostitute in the Jackson Mississippi area. She also goes by Madison her e mail address is Madisonomp1@yahoo.com she will love you, and take everything you own this slut, whore

by Bob Pilger at July 15, 2006 12:40 PM

BAH HAHAHAHA... this is devious... i love it. i just found out my girl is cheating on me with her ex boyfriend who she was engaged with for 9 months. I just found out this morning and now its game on....

by CGP at July 17, 2006 7:36 PM

Gents,
I'm stuck in a relationship right now with a cheating fucking whore. It's partly my fault for sticking around after catching the skank trying to cheat the first time. She swore up and down that it would never happen again and that she only loved me. That was 2 years ago. This Valentines day I happened to come across a few emails of hers telling a contractor from her work that she would have to 'save the red thong for next Valentine's day' and tons of other shit. In that email she says I 'messed up their plans' because I ended up picking her up from work that day. After confronting the whore she acted like I deserved that shit. I've never cheated on her, or any other girlfriend for that matter. I am just fucking livid but I have the best revenge planned for this cheating cunt. It's been said before but I'm going to say it again, Gentlemen, revenge is a dish best served cold... BUT... it goes down so much better after you've warmed it up first. Keep your friends close, but keep your cheating whores closer. Make them love you, then crush them while laughing in their faces.

by Carlos Ferreira at July 29, 2006 7:58 PM

hes from holland but luves in st maarten but act as if he s nice person but hes bad as hell he uses girls get girls pregnant and then dump them

by anno bauer at August 28, 2006 3:44 PM

lamo

by Max at September 1, 2006 2:22 AM

how pathetic is this article ...you want to keep your women because your too insecure to leave her - your not capable of satisfing that sweet pussy like the other man did
in fact the other man really enjoyed her pussy , i bet he had a damn good suck on it before he banged the hole off her
and all that time she was smiling and kissing the other man
thats her calling she loves cock
and who can blame her when shes ina relationship with a women abuser

she deserves good quality dick , dont deny her that right

by pumapage at October 27, 2006 9:03 AM

I have been cheated by five guys and iam still surviving. I have no hope living in this world....iam in a dark world. I hate men.
There is no such a thing called true love....men are bad...................
I hate god and i hate men.

by kavitha at November 7, 2006 3:17 AM

Alright, usually I am REALLY against doing anything with a guy who has a girlfriend. But I met this guy recently and we hit it off really well, he has a girlfriend that's he's been with for 3 years, thing is, she lives 6,000 miles away. (and has the whole time they've been together.) He asked me to come hang out, and eventually kissed me. We ended up messing around, and I told him I felt guilty since he has a girlfriend. He told me if anyone should feel guilty, it should be him, but for some reason he doesn't at all. We were totally sober, and it's happend several times. He contacts me everyday and somedays we just hang out all night and don't mess around at all. And if someone is rude to me, he gets defensive and makes them apologize to me. He is still with his girlfriend (this has only been going on for a few weeks) and I don't know what to do. Is he into me at all? or is he just using me? I need help!

by Thisdoesntmatter at November 11, 2006 4:27 AM

To thisdoesntmatter... 1) he's just using you. 2) he acts nice now but nice guys don't lie. 3) you're destroying someone elses relationship, possibly more than that - you don't know his and her situation entirely and you never will since you only ever hear one side of it, give it up and if he wants to be with you he will be with you and you alone.

by rab at November 22, 2006 10:54 PM

Girl, you are just as bad as he is. You are just as bad as a cheater.

Maybe his girlfriend can come home and sock you both in the face with a sack of oranges.

You are scum. You deserve your cheater of a boyfriend...cuz he will cheat on you when the opportunity arises. Of course he will....you are not a strong enough woman to find a man who is unattached. You are weak...which is why someone would be rude to you and is why he would have to defend you.

Get a life....not someone elses.

by To Thisdoesntmatter at November 24, 2006 11:24 PM

three words. best. advice. ever.

by JP at December 19, 2006 6:17 PM

Okay I like all the revenge stuff but the physical abuse thing is a little far. My husband cheated on me several times and it hurt more then you will ever know and I'm all for making them pay but there are limits you should set because revenge to make someones life hell and make them feel as horrible as you is great! But by physically hurting someone it will feel better for awhile trust me I still dream about taking a bat to his kneecaps but it won't make me a better person and in time I would feel bad about hurting someone like that.... however keying the son of a bitches car is wonderful!!!!! (p.s. if you key someones car like i did make sure you make it look like someone else did it...hee hee he still thinks the girl he was seeing did it!!)

by Sarah at December 29, 2006 11:29 PM

Terri russell, school teacher in bakersfield CA flies cross country to cheat on her husband with a married man with 3 kids under the age of 4. How pathetic. Just because she never lost the weight after Lexington was born, she decides to ruin another family's right to happiness. She is a sad person, but even more sad are her two children that will grow up knowing their mother is a whore. How sad. But, her day is coming. Everything comes full circle, everything.

by terri at January 31, 2007 12:53 AM

I felt the same way, I caught my wife red handed. I write about how I caught her in my blog check it out
www.dirtycheat.blogspot.com

by jesse reed at May 10, 2007 11:30 PM

Awesome blog Jesse, Thats the way to do it.

by Pat at May 10, 2007 11:36 PM

are you recovered, Bobby, or still pining for the female??

Remember me? Ozark?

by Dawn at May 8, 2008 5:11 PM

bad advice : this cheating heart

by mg at 07:40 AM on April 02, 2001

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