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What we have here is a failure to communicate
by anna at 10:40 AM on December 22, 2004
Once a girl told me she didn't perform a certain act on men. It wasn't that she was prudish, she explained, as she went in for all manner of other stuff with reckless abandon. Nor was it a taste issue.
The reason was that she'd heard the derisive way guys would say things like "suck my dick" to each other. She felt that to do it would thus be degrading to her as a person. She said boyfriends had tried to persuade her to do it in that inimitably subtle guy way of grabbing the back of her head and shoving it downward.
This had to be one of the oddest things anyone has ever uttered to me. It's one of those pieces of information to which you just don't have a ready response.
And it was all the more strange because I didn't know her all that well and I wasn't asking her to do anything let alone... that.
comments (6)
Wow. I had trouble posting on my blog today, a bit sick from the cold, and especially from last night's news in iraq...
...but to post a blur on oral sex... Anna, you sometimes trump Lockheed in distastefulness..
by LOCKHEED at December 22, 2004 1:53 PM
Wow. I had trouble posting on my blog today, a bit sick from the cold, and especially from last night's news in iraq...
...but to post a blur on oral sex... Anna, you sometimes trump Lockheed in distastefulness.. I love it.
by LOCKHEED at December 22, 2004 1:53 PM
I'm not sure if you really did feel that way, Lock. Sometimes it is a bit hard to tell. But what's a blur?
by anna at December 22, 2004 2:06 PM
right, we know the truth, Anna! ;)
by fcsuper at December 22, 2004 4:37 PM
This is one of the most disjointed comment threads I've ever seen. I love it. Merry Hannukah. Happy Christmas.
by anna at December 23, 2004 10:38 AM
She also confided that she really hadn't had any complaints, which came across like boasting.
by anna at December 23, 2004 1:49 PM